Authentic Relationship
I was getting ready to start this inner reflection by saying; the statement authentic relationship especially resonates within me because it is dealing with something I have been and am still dealing with in my life today. However, that is true when it comes to everything I think about and write about and everything I share with others. Everything I write about either has to do with something I am going through, or something I have gone through. Everything I write about is for my wholistic growth and expansion, and the most important part of that is Spiritual. That which I write about comes first to me for me, then I share it just by chance it may resonate with someone else and possibly trigger something within her or him that will assist them on their journey through this physical plane. Foremost and continually, I am seeking a deeper more fluid and intimate Authentic Spiritual Relationship with GREAT MYSTERY, SPIRIT, MOTHER-FATHER GODDESS-GOD, THE DIVINE, OMNI-INTELLIGENCE. The reason why there are so many names for THE DIVINE is, THE DIVINE means so many different this to different people. Nevertheless, there are those who are not conscious of that Divine Reality as of yet.
The conscious reality of people having authentic relationships seems to be getting slimmer with each passing moment. That is because the art of developing, having, and maintaining an authentic relationship is being lost due to the rise of personal ego, “Edging GOD Out” as Wayne Dyer refers to the ego. The decline of authentic relationships has a lot to do with the level of impatience that is permeating humanity today. Developing an authentic relationship takes a lot of time, effort, and patience before we even enter into the relationship, and a whole lot more of time, effort, and patience throughout the life of the relationship. The number one major problem why so many people have gotten so selfish may possible be ego, edging GODDESS-GOD out. Their first concern is usually what can you do for me. Actually, our first concern should be, what can I do to make the Whole of Creation a better place. Then it should be; what can I do to make my relationship with all of my sisters and brothers of creation better, especially with the one I am in an intimate relationship with. Nevertheless, many of us are focused on others doing what pleases us all of the time. Those who think like that actually have a low self esteem, because of that they try to compensate for their short comings by demanding attention and expecting everything to be done for them by their mate, and everyone else they associate with.
They are missing the second most valuable gift afforded to us all in life, and that is the gift of giving, treating others as we want to be treated. The Law of Reciprocity dictates that what we give will be returned to us multiplied many times over. So in order to get what we want, we must plant the seeds of our wants through giving in order to flow to us freely. We cannot try to do it in reverse and expect the results we desire, some are fooled and think it is working perfectly doing it the opposite way. However, if you examine there past relationships you will notice that they do not have longevity and balanced happiness. They go from one relationship to the next doing the same thing, completely edging GODDESS-GOD out. That is why marriage is at an all time low in America. I find that if the relationship continues in such a state, they are void of any true Love, partnership, companionship and service one to the other, they are merely existing together. When two come together in an authentic relationship both individuals should function as one finely tuned instrument, one entity, making the concern of the other just as important as the concern for self. Becoming one is not exclusive to the christian religion, it is a Divine Universal Reality. If you study animals in their natural habitat, you will witness that taking place. In addition, we say that we are the most intelligent creatures on the face of the earth. Acting the way that we have been acting, we had better think twice about believing and boasting that we are most intelligent creatures on the face of the earth. We need to take notes and learn from the Animal Kingdom, they have a lot to teach us about service and living together in harmony with each other and the Whole of Creation.
One other extremely important thing is missing. The first most valuable gift afforded to humanity in this lifetime, and that is the gift of Unconditional Love. I see Unconditional Love as the purest part of our now-time make-up. Unconditional Love is GODDESS-GOD’S Purest ENERGY. We must learn how to allow Unconditional Love to rule Supreme in and through us at all times, and in everything that we do. Until we learn how to do that, we are like chickens running around the barnyard with our heads cut off. Sorry for the gruesome analogy, however, when humanity acts as it has been acting it is as if our heads are gone, because we are not thinking at all. All we are doing is following the lead of one or more mindless individuals who nominated themselves as our teachers, preachers, spiritual guides, and leaders. It is as I point out from time to time, the blind leading the blind down the cliffs of the Grand Canyon. We must open our eyes wide, see our error, respond appropriately and then make the necessary changes in our lives. On the other hand, we can continue living as we have been living with our humongous egos propped up on our shoulders taking the place of our head and common sense. We do not have to give up our individuality to accomplish this. The true self is the Collective Self, which is also the Higher Self. The Collective Self supplies the entire human body. Because we have unconsciously dis-connected from our Divine Oneness, we are acting the way that we are today. When we lash out at another, we are lashing out at ourselves. When we hurt another, we are hurting ourselves. When we fail to Love another, we are failing to Love ourselves. We must understand that loving and caring for another does not mean that we are to forget about our needs, wants, and desires. It actually provides for those needs, wants, and desires, because of the Law or Reciprocity.
We must first have an authentic relationship with our sisters and brother before we can expect to have an authentic relationship with THE DIVINE/GODDESS-GOD. How can we say that we Love GODDESS-GOD when we mistreat our sisters and brothers and they are one with and the dwelling place for GODDESS-GOD? Humanity being in the frame of mind that it is has lost its common sense and its instinct. When it comes to humanity, common sense is no longer common, and instinct is an ancient thing of the past. Animals are more in tune with the Universal Vibration and Universal Law then human beings. We need to stop fearing that if we give of ourselves freely and unconditionally we will not get what we need and desire in return. That does not align with Universal Law at all. We do not have to look to a man or a woman to make good on our unconditional gifts and offerings to humanity through our authentic relationships. We will reap a bountiful harvest, if we plant a bountiful harvest. I cannot say that I know a lot, because the School of Life is still in session for me. However, I can say that I know this to be Divine Reality. I know from experience, and from simply a knowing deep within myself, we always know what is and what isn’t in Divine Flow. Nevertheless, sometimes, since we have been pretending not to know for such a long time that we actually start to believe the lies we have been telling others. If we take the time to go within, and commune Spirit-to-SPIRIT, we will get every answers to every question we have. As we re-acquaint ourselves with this true state of being, we will make a few mis-takes. However, the more we practice communing in an authentic way, the more accurate we will get. Put ego (edging GODDESS-GOD Out) and change your script and reality.
“ The reality of people having authentic relationships is getting slimmer with each passing day.”
However, the power rests within us to change that!
Baba-Kundi Ma'at-Shambhala
(SpiritWalker)
Copyright © July 2010
Affirmation
I Am Totally and Only Committed To Authentic Relationships.
I Have An Eternal Authentic Relationship with GODDESS-GOD.
Baba-Kundi Ma'at-Shambhala
(SpiritWalker)
Copyright © July 2010
"ONE LOVE, UNCONDITIONAL!"
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