The Dance of Relationship

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The Dance of Relationship

The dance of relationship can possibly be very difficult. However, I know that it does not have to be difficult. It can be and should be a very loving, easy, and a fulfilling dance if we enter into it and remain in it the way that we are intended to; and that is through the Sacred Energy of Unconditional Love; and truly treating our partner as we wish to be treated. That is the reason why inner self-love and self-work is so important. Many times we do not treat ourselves in the proper way that we should, because we do not know ourselves as well as we should. Most of us do not know ourselves as well as we should due to the fact that we have lived our entire lives, trying to be who others want us to be, and the way others see us. In addition to that, we do not Love others the way that we should because first of all we do not know how to Love ourselves. It is not possible to Love someone outside of ourselves, when we do not know how to Love the one that is closest to us; numero uno, us.

If you and I would examine how we treated ourselves over the years, we would understand immediately the agony another would experience being in relationship with us, if we neglected them the way that we have neglected ourselves. We would also understand that if another knew how we have neglected our needs, they would not enter into a relationship with us unless they had an extremely low self-esteem, and/or the individual was a glutton for punishment. The bottom line here is this, it all starts with us; we must learn to get our own house in order before we even think about starting a relationship with someone. I am only talking about the absolute basics here, Relationship 101. However, without doing our homework, no matter how much we want a relationship to work, and how much effort we put into building a relationship, it will quickly crumble to dust. It is like trying to build a house with no experience and think it will be livable. We get our experience in Love as we learn how to Love ourselves, not as we try to Love others. Trial and error alone in a relationship is a guaranteed recipe for failure. There will be some trial and error in relationships of every kind, but if trial and error is the only experience we have in our relationships, we are in for a long hard bumpy ride; that is if we make it at all in the relationship.

We receive great healing and unbelievable liberating revelations about all things, when we spend quality alone time with only SPIRIT and ourselves. Most of the time we leave out SPIRIT because we do not take the time to know SPIRIT, in the exact same way that we do not truly take the time to know ourselves. If we took time to know ourselves, we would eventually enter into Divine Understanding, then we would know that there is no one and no relationship that is greater than us, and no human being greater than us; and that revelation would come without any outside help. Actually, the only direction that we need comes from within, by way of SPIRIT. We cannot do a single thing without the assistance of SPIRIT. SPIRIT is right in the middle of absolutely everything that we do. However, the biggest question is this; are we paying any attention to the direction SPIRIT is giving us? It does not matter whether or not we are doing the worst thing a person could ever do in life, SPIRIT is with us all of the time.

I am about to say something that may be hard for some to fully digest; however it is the absolute truth. SPIRIT was with Hitler throughout his entire lifetime, and was available for him to turn from his wicked dark ways. Hitler was the way he was because he did not Love himself, and most importantly, because he did not have an Intimate Relationship with SPIRIT. I must be clear here; I am not talking about Hitler becoming a born again christian. I am talking about the original relationship, the ultimate relationship of all, and that has nothing to do with any man made religion. SPIRIT is all around us and in us; SPIRIT is in everything that we see. SPIRIT has an ongoing relationship with every form of life in this Universe, yet human beings the so-called intellectuals, are the only part of creation that is having difficulty with relationship with SPIRIT and each other. We better wake up while we still have time to do so. We cannot have any type of relationship without first having an Intimate Relationship with ourselves and SPIRIT. We Are Eternally One With SPIRIT, and until we recognize that and act accordingly, we will not reap the benefits of that Sacred Relationship.

Our Sacred Relationship with SPIRIT can be likened unto a Divine Romantic Dance; maybe something such as a sensual tango. We graciously lock ourselves in a Warm Heavenly Embrace with SPIRIT, as we gracefully glide on the Heavenly Wings of Rhythm, to the ever-changing Divine Melodies and Rhythmic Beats of Unconditional Love. The Dance of Relationship with SPIRIT is more romantic and gracious than anything we have ever seen, thought, or dreamt; it is Simply Divine. We are supposed to have that experience continually with SPIRIT as we sojourn through this life. Likewise we are supposed to have a similar experience in our Love relationships with each other. However, as you and I have relationships with each other, we must remember this very important fact; every dance does not last forever. Some of us will experience our dances being interrupted by one partner being called to make transition from this physical plane; other dances will be interrupted when the two partners are no longer growing in their dance of relationship. You see; the dance between two people is about many things, and one of the most important things is Continual Spiritual Growth. Many see a relationship coming to an end as being negative; a relationship coming to an end is not necessarily negative. Many times the season of a relationship does not span an entire lifetime. Maybe in some relationships the season is only long enough for certain lessons to be learned, then it is time for both parties to move on and share what they have learned with others. Think of this possibility as a reason for the season of the relationship to come to an end. The acceleration of Spiritual consciousness has caused a rapid change in humanity; so in order to help some stay up with the change they need assistance, and the best way to assist them is for SPIRIT to step in and switch up relationships. We must remember the Dance of Life is not just about individual relationships; it is about what is best for the whole of humanity, and the whole of creation as well.

Every Relationship Is Purely Divine In Nature!

One Love, Unconditional and Eternal!

Baba-Kundi Ma'at-Shambhala

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